Domestic Violence

During an emergency, always dial 911.

What to Do if You Are a Victim of Domestic Violence

  • Call 911 and report the incident. Write down the police report and incident number and keep them with your records.
  • If necessary, seek medical attention. Have injuries documented and photographed.
  • Go to a safe place such as a domestic violence shelter.
  • Seek the support of caring people. Tell someone you trust about the abuse. They may be your friend, a family member, a neighbor, a co-worker, or staff members of support agencies. Talk to them in a private, safe place. You do not need to face abuse alone.
  • Have a safety plan. If your partner is abusive, have a plan to protect yourself and your children in case you need to leave quickly. If you are abused, be honest with yourself, think of the consequences, and get help.
  • File for a protective order that will tell your abuser to stay away.

When you decide to get help, find a support system that works for you. A trusted friend, family member, or professional can help you devise a safety plan and find a safe place for you to stay, if necessary.

If you are a victim of abuse, you are not alone. You have the right to be safe. You are not responsible for violent behavior. No one deserves to be beaten or threatened!

Helpful Hints

  • When you are asked to appear in court:
    • Be on time.
    • Bring all your paperwork.
    • Do not bring your children.
    • Talk directly to the judge, not the respondent.
    • Tell the truth.
    • Be courteous, sincere, and speak clearly.
    • Bring police reports, photographs, and affidavits.
  • You must be able to provide a current address for service of the protective order on the abuser.
  • Keep your protective order with you at all times.

For additional information please contact the Caring Place at 219-464-0840 or the Victim Assistance Unit at 219-465-3433.

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History & Staff

Established in 1996 as part of the Violence Against Women Act, the Domestic Violence Unit includes two deputy prosecuting attorneys and a victim advocate whose mission is to handle all domestic violence cases filed by the Porter County prosecuting attorney.