Ask neighbors to call police if they hear a disturbance
Pick a code word to use with your children, family, and friends when you need police
Use your best instincts and judgments to stay safe until you can escape or help arrives
Preparing to Leave the Relationship
If possible put aside money for this day: Credit cards, checks, bank books, etc.
Make an extra set of keys to the house and car - keep them hidden and accessible.
Make an emergency bag for yourself and children. Include a set of clothes for each, important papers (birth certificates, social security cards, list of medications, etc.)
Plan where you can go temporarily even if you do not think you will need to leave the home
Contact the local women's shelters for emotional support and information on available help and temporary safe shelter
Leave home if you feel you are in real physical danger. Call the police as soon as possible, 911